We all can make enemies but a sure way of not making enemies needs your ability to control your Emotions. If you think you are RIGHT most of the time then start working the Stock Market. If you think that you are right all the time and think they are wrong then keep it to yourself.
PROVE them wrong by your Actions, looks and manner which will influence them because you confidence of doing it your way will show them you are right and their way wrong as actions speak louder than words. Forcing your opinion on others can make them your enemy. Arguing will never let both sides save face.
Pride can cause trouble with everyone by hurting their feelings. Right or wrong friends will strike back and become enemies. Be discreet by helping mankind find the right answer without telling him so. Two people arguing hear and learn nothing.
It pays to listen and not talk. If you have to say something then ask for the answer by asking a question that leads to a discussion or explanation. Lets examine the facts that may help all understand where any mistakes are in the two opinions. Any bad feelings will be released so with the best results all are still friends. Showing respect and being diplomatic will always be a winner.
Remember to look with both eyes and learn. Lister and learn with both ears but keep your one mouth shut as it will get you into trouble. You will then be considered smarter than the others. They will learn that by your action you speak louder. Nobody changes their mind during an argument as a form of tunnel vision takes over in the brain. When we are relaxed and being thoughtful we often change our mind about things as we are being rational and showing wisdom. When we let ourselves try and understand other peoples point of view we gain knowledge of others education which will improve our own.
With the knowledge of both and without predigests it is easier to come up with a better solution. We can only gain knowledge by learning from others but not when arguing which stops us understanding others point of view. Always admit you may be wrong and be proud of your frankness. It will make people stop and think of your point of view more closely. Show you are broad minded and strong in possibly admitting being right or wrong.
Ridicule and abuse will never be right or wrong. Suggestions will help others think better when not being forced. DO YOU REALLY CARE ABOUT LIFE? Do you look after your health or just wait until you are sick to care? Look after your family first especially the young and old.
New Technology has arrived to save lives and cheep. The wristband can do wonders. Seven to choose but only one can do all.
- THE world’s first Smart wristband is not ONLY a Heart rate monitor But a Respiration rate monitor as well. BUT there is More….. & More and more, Also Blood Pressure, your ECG can be done. Do You want more? Your Heart rate Variability will analysis for mood and energy levels Along with measuring steps, distance and calories that YOU burn. This is a serious piece of equipment with more not mentioned like being a monitor.
New things will be added as they come available & not too far away.
SO JOIN AND EXTEND A LIFE, YOU & YOURS.
Put yourself on the line and be the master of your own time.
for your time, Tom Short.